How to get out of the friend zone

        Being in love with a close friend requires you to first escape the dreaded “friend zone” and many people will tell you to make yourself less available. However, you can’t really help but wonder if this approach really effective to get out of the friend zone. This is due to the fact that being around the girl more often could indeed be advantageous on some points.
        This fact is not 100 percent true however. Being a close friend may have its advantages but the problem lies in women’s nature and psychology. You see, being tagged as a friend by a woman will automatically drop you out in her list of potential boyfriends. Yes, this is the sad truth; women just don’t see their friends as a sexual being.
        This is why making yourself available to get out of the friend zone is an effective approach. You see, it is much easier to get noticed by a woman as a potential lover if you are out of the friend zone. However, this doesn’t mean that you stop your friendship with her completely; you just need to control it and turn it around by making yourself scarce and missed. After all, chasing over something that is rare also applies to men and women as far as finding a partner is concerned.
        Make no mistake though; do not ever come to think of yourself someone who she cannot live without. Remember, if you spend too little time with her she will just eventually find other friends and completely illuminate the chance that you have right now.
        What you should do in this case is try to limit your availability to her so you can get out of the friend zone. Instead of just hanging out with her all the time you should focus on making more exciting, worthwhile and memorable moments with her. Limiting your conversations over the phone or internet will make way for you to start arranging pseudo dates which is better.
        By creating more memorable moments with her, she will miss you and want your attention more. She will also then start to realize how great a boyfriend you can be.

8 signs you are in the friend zone

        Many times it may not be that clear that a girl has labeled you as “just a friend” and if you do not have an idea, your efforts to get with her are doomed before you start. In this case these dating advice of signs you are in the friend zone can help you plan your next move.

       1. She tells you about other guys

        This is huge. If she is talking very candidly about other guys with you, you are probably in the friend zone as she feels comfortable that this will not be a big deal to you because you are her friend… not a potential lover.

      2. She hides nothing

        Women who are interested in a guy hold a lot back so they do not scare off the guy of their dreams. If your girl shares all her secrets she is not having an in depth connection, she just does not see you as someone she should keep secrets from.

        3. She does not flirt with you

        Even if you try hard to flirt with her in the things you say and do she is unresponsive then there are no signs of attraction from her because she sees you as a friend not a boyfriend.

        4. You are like a brother to her

        If she tells you “You are like a brother to me” this is the worst. Brothers are not lovers, she looks at you as a conversation buddy and someone who will help and protect her but never as someone to call a lover.

        5. She does not try to impress you with looks

        If does not fix herself when you come around this is a hint she is not interested looking pretty for you. You are like the worn and comfortable pair of pants to her and that is probably what she is wearing not a sexy miniskirt.

        6. Does not give you her full attention

        If she is mindless of you while she does the washing or emailing or text messaging on her phone you do not have her full attention. If she keeps forgetting what you say you are probably in the friend zone.

        7. Always asks your advice

        If she always runs to you crying you are nothing more than a comforting brother or cheap therapist. Girls do not do this with the guys they are madly in love with because they are scared it will drive them away.

        8. She disregards compliments

        If you show appreciation about the way she looks or what she is doing and it is returned with a not so enthusiastic “Thanks” then your compliment does not matter to her. IF you were boyfriend material she would be warm and happy at the compliment… another sign you are in the friend zone.

        If most of these sound like you then you are most likely friend zoned and have no chance of being her boyfriend while you are like this. There are however ways that you can take matters into your own hands and refrain from this behavior to escape this trap and become her lover. What are the ways to do that? You will find them in my next article.

Keys to seducing beautiful women-part 2

        It’s easy to see how most guys can feel as though they have no chance at all at seducing beautiful women. When you turn on the television and you see a really sexy woman in a movie, she’s always falling for the nice guy, the one that does all of the right things and is always there for her. So, you start to think that this must really be the way to seduce a woman. And so, when you go out into the real world and it doesn’t work, it makes you wonder what’s going on?
Truth is, to seduce beautiful women, you have to pick up a few essential skills. It does not matter whether or not you play the nice guy role or try to pull of the bad boy routine. Until you pick up these essential skills, seducing a woman will just be something that you fantasize about.
        Here are a few things that you need to know if you want to seduce beautiful women:

        1. You are going to have to learn how to approach women no matter how uncomfortable it seems at first.
        Most women do have the fantasy about meeting some mysterious or dashing stranger that knows how to woo them and sweep them off of their feet. The catch is, the stranger is always the one that makes the approach. If you don’t have the skill to approach women in any situation, then you need to learn how to, and build on that skill until it becomes effortless.
        2. You are going to have to learn how to open conversations.
        Making the approach is part of the process, but what are you going to do once you get up to her? Do you know how to open a conversation with her? This is one area that most guys absolutely stink at. They either try some horrible line that hasn’t worked ever, or they just have nothing much to say at all. You need to be able to open a conversation with a woman if you are going to be able to seduce her into bed with you.
        3. You have to be able to escalate flirting beyond the usual pleasantries.
        Just flirting with a woman the usual way may get you a phone number or a cute little kiss on the cheek, but if you are going to get past that and get her into bed with you, then you need to be able to escalate the flirting onto a physical level.

Keys to seducing beautiful women

        Most guys never seem to give themselves permission to even believe that they can end up being with beautiful women. The idea that a normal, average guy can seduce a really attractive, really beautiful woman just sounds too good to be true for most guys. Yet, that is exactly what can happen, as long as you start to give yourself permission to think it is possible and learn what you need to do to seduce a woman properly.
        When thinking about seduction and what it takes to seduce a woman, most men will kind of imagine that they either have to look a certain way, or they have to learn some crazy seduction methods to manipulate the way that a woman feels about them. All of that sounds too complicated, and really, seducing a woman does not require that you learn any crazy, secretive seduction methods.
        Here are a few keys to help you seduce beautiful women:

        1. It’s all about the way that you make a woman see you.
        And it all starts with how you see yourself. See, when you walk up to a woman and you come off as being insecure, or look like you lack any kind of confidence with women, they don’t even look at you as being the kind of guy they would go to bed with. When you make a woman see you as being confident, secure, and you know that you have what it takes, women will see you very differently.
        2. Instead of trying to learn pick up lines and routines, learn how to read a woman’s body language.
        Being able to pick up on a woman’s physical cues is one of the best skills that any guy can develop. It’s the skill that gives you the ability to come off like you know exactly what to say and do at just the right time. It’s what gives a woman the impression that you know her like no other, which builds a strong bond with her.
        3. Seducing a woman starts with conversation.
        So many guys have a hard time talking to women, and this prevents them from ever being able to pick up the skill of seducing a woman. It all starts with the conversation, being able to flirt with her and build up chemistry, and making her feel like you are not like any other guy she has met. This is how you can make her feel like going to bed with you is natural and you don’t have to work hard at all to try and seduce a woman.
        You don’t have to be a “stud” to learn how to seduce a woman, but you do have to know what really works and what doesn’t…

Seduction Methods

        The word “seduction” is often related only to adults given its mature meaning and connotation. Sometimes, it is implied as something that is morally wrong because of certain factors that may actually result to it as being such. In reality, seduction is a necessity in a man and woman relationship. It is an effective way to attract the opposite sex. Men are always seen as the initiator of seduction. Why? Because most of the time, men are the ones approaching women. Nowadays, however, women are also learning seduction methods they use towards the men they like. What does this mean? Seduction is now seen in an entirely new perspective. It is no longer an act only made by men. This reality shows that seducing to get the attention of the opposite sex is not for “losers” or for the alpha males only. It is a vital factor that makes dating and being acquainted with someone else easier. The importance of knowing seduction methods are in knowing why it is needed to be done. In dating, seduction facilitates faster connection with the opposite sex. The techniques being used is a clear indication that a man is interested in a woman, thus, the woman can immediately respond to this action giving the man a clearer message if the feeling is mutual. It does not only speed up the dating process, it also puts on additional self-confidence on both the man and the woman. For a man, being responded to means he is attractive enough for the woman. For the woman, being seduced gives her a feeling of being appreciated and admired. Losers in the love playing field do not resort to seduction out of desperation. Seduction is done in order to show the opposite sex about your intentions very early on and there is nothing wrong with this.

3 amazing seduction methods that will get any girl to like you

How do I ask THIS girl on a date?

        It’s a question that your average guy wonders when talking to a woman for the first time. He’s enjoying the conversation, think she’s attractive, and wants to meet her to find out more. So what’s the secret ‘seduction method’ to asking a girl out? Truth is there really is NO magical seduction method. Most of the time, a conversation filled with flirting and sexual tension will NATURALLY flow into making plans for a future encounter.  But with that being said, there are a few rules and guidelines that you should follow if you want to turn a first conversation into a date with a woman:

        Flirting Conversations

        Above ALL things, a woman HAS to enjoy the conversation that she’s having with you! If she’s glancing around the room and looking for a chance to escape, then a date with her will NOT be in your future. To make her want to date you, she HAS to feel sexual attraction. Unless you create a feeling of chemistry, the BEST that’ll happen is she’ll think you’ll “make a great friend”…YUCK!
        You can flirt by teasing her, joking around, playing flirty games, telling stories, and establishing rapport. All of these methods will help you spark her interest. Truth is the MORE you successfully flirt at this point, the EASIER it’ll be to get that date! Use the first 10-15 minutes of the conversation to your advantage. Show her that you’re a guy that she NEEDS to see again!
        EVERYTHING you need to know about a girl’s interest is found in her body language. In fact, it’s been proven that 90% of all human communication is done on a non-verbal level. So even if she’s smacking you and telling you “what a jerk you are”, her body language is saying something COMPLETELY different. If you want to see if she’s interested in a date, you have to study her reaction to your flirting conversation.
        Here’s your goal… When talking to this girl, you have to sky-rocket her sexual attraction. Whether it takes a few minutes OR a few hours, you must build your conversation to the point where you KNOW she’s attracted to you. How can you tell? Well…EVERY woman has a NUMBER of signals which indicate her level of interest. Here are some common signs of attraction:

-She keeps the conversation going by asking you personal questions

-She’s touching you throughout the conversation

-She’s laughing and fully engaged in what you have to say

-She’s teasing YOU back whenever you’re joking with her

-She starts to hint about what you like to do and ask what you’re doing during the week.

        Now I personally think a lot of these are OBVIOUS signs of interest. Unfortunately most guys don’t seem to pick them up. The honest truth is MOST of the time you’ll simply *feel* when “it’s on” and when it isn’t. Use these signs as a guideline NOT as the absolute truth!

        Getting the Date

        A lot of guys put TOO much emphasis on bringing girls on the PERFECT date. If you want to impress her, don’t TRY to impress her. Confusing, right? The BEST date idea isn’t something elaborate. Instead it’s bringing her to an activity that you would NORMALLY do during the week. AND you ask her in a way that does NOT come across as a date request. When the conversation is going well, simply think about what you have going on during the upcoming week. If you follow this advice, you should doing a LOT of things… Are you meeting friends at a bar? Are you going to a concert or sporting event? Even easer, are you going to the mall to shop? A date shouldn’t be a formal, fancy event. It should a fun, casual activity that gives you a chance to deepen the connection you had during the first conversation. At the moment when she’s laughing AND having fun, you casually mention what you’re doing during the week. THEN simply invite her to come along with whatever you’re doing and get her number. It’s really that simple!

        Text and Call For Re-Attraction

        Here’s a FINAL ‘seduction method’ to ensure that this number turns into a date…
        Without going to into TOO much detail here, women OFTEN get “buyer’s remorse” when giving out their number. If you want to keep her interest, you MUST maintain that sense of sexual tension during the period between the number exchange and the first date.
        Bottom line is you have to work on RE-ATTRACTING her. The essence of this ‘seduction method’ is you call and text her to keep YOU in the forefront of HER mind. By STRATEGICALLY calling and texting her with flirty messages, she’ll subconsciously anticipate your next encounter. Follow all this ‘seduction methods’ and you will just fine.